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Ep 33 | Why Your 2021 Goals Fell Flat (& What You Can Do About It)

November 17, 2021 by Angelica 80 Comments

So here we are near the end of 2021!

Are you wondering what happened to all the zeal, enthusiasm, and hype from the beginning of the year?

Or even…what happened to your goals?

In today’s episode, we’re uncovering why your goals may have fallen flat this year and what you can do about it. 

Because, here’s the deal, it’s one thing to acknowledge that you maybe didn’t hit your goals for this year. It’s another thing to figure out what you can do about it. 
That’s what today’s episode is all about.

See the full show notes + transcripts with links to everything I mentioned in this episode here: angelicaduncan.com/33

Are you looking around wondering where has the year gone and not a single goal achieved to show for it?

Did you start off the year like American Pharoh in the Kentucky Derby only to fizzle out long before you reached the finish line?

Or perhaps you knocked out some goals and were #winning and then something crept up inside of you that has you looking like a deer in headlights now…

…if so then you need to grab my FREE Kingdom Woman’s Year-In-Review Guidebook

In it, you will get instant access to my personal, proprietary method of prepping for your best year ever.

Get your copy of my free guidebook by heading over to 
angelicaduncan.com/yearinreview


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…there’s only one way to live a spirit-filled life and build a Spirit-filled ministry and that’s to dance with the King Christ Jesus!

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Comments

  1. Georgean Valencia says

    November 17, 2021 at 7:35 am

    Will you please be my coach because I need to lose 100lb by Dec 31 2021

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      November 22, 2021 at 8:40 am

      What an honor! I’m not a weight loss coach, so I don’t think I can help you in this arena, however, my Year-In-Review Guidebook, might just be the best next step for you! You can check it out here: https://angelicaduncan.com/yearinreview

      Reply
  2. Bridget Higgenbotham says

    November 17, 2021 at 1:46 pm

    Thank you so much for this podcast and for always being obedient to GOD. This is on-time and definitely describes when I’m at right now in my life journey…spinning around in circles, trying to find some direction; just really busy but not seeing very much productivity. I am so tired of starting things that I never seem to focus on finishing, only to repeat that cycle when I feel as though there is something new I desire to accomplish.

    Thanks again.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      November 22, 2021 at 8:38 am

      I’m glad you found this at the right time! Be sure to grab your copy of my Year-In-Review Guidebook. I be it’ll be the perfect next step for you! https://angelicaduncan.com/yearinreview

      Reply
    • Stacey Payton says

      January 21, 2022 at 11:23 pm

      My desire is to get deeper into the Word, so I can grow deeper in my ministry. I am just amazed by Angelica Duncan’s heart for empowering other women in their ministry. I’ve completed her Advent and P31 study. I’m grateful for this idea that maybe I set the wrong goal which may be the reason why sections of my goals have fallen flat. Goals that are too vague or too lofty.Bring in the realism.I’m looking so forward to this annual planning retreat so much.

      Reply
  3. Joyce Chelangat says

    November 18, 2021 at 8:16 am

    Brilliant ideas.
    Being intentional in what I’d like to achieve.

    Thanks

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      November 22, 2021 at 8:39 am

      Great reflection! Be sure to snag your copy of my Year-In-Review Guidebook. It’ll help prepare your heart, soul, and spirit for 2022! https://angelicaduncan.com/yearinreview

      Reply
  4. Dr. AJ Austin says

    January 10, 2022 at 6:34 pm

    Yes! I’m the “Quick Starter”, type A+ personality…😔. But, I’m trying something NEW with my goals this year; To keep them written out {and updated} on my bedroom wall, so that I see them first thing in the morning and just before bed! I PRAY this works, lol.

    -Dr.AJ
    http://www.blacklifecoachcompany.com

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:05 pm

      Great idea, Dr AJ! Keep me posted on how well it works –because I KNOW it will work well!

      Reply
  5. Kristen Brainard says

    January 10, 2022 at 9:51 pm

    Oh, I do start off with fire and lightning bolts! Then mid year life and surgery and family issues became a complete distraction! I met some goals last year, but this year I want to be in passionate pursuit of the goals and work God has for me! Thank you so much for the inspiration!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:07 pm

      I’m so glad it blessed you, Kristen. God has BIG plans for your life this year!

      Reply
  6. Alison Wattley says

    January 11, 2022 at 2:39 am

    Angelica you are truly what I needed. I took a chance on registering for the boot camp and I have to say that this episode was all about me. I am so A type I think I can be the mascot. I have started straight out of the gate with pure fire on many projects and fizzled out because I lost interest. Now You know I am stumped with deciding which Goal is my 1 Goal, like seriously??? well I will pray about it.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:09 pm

      A-Typers unite! 🙌🏾 💕

      Reply
  7. Wanda Shawyer says

    January 11, 2022 at 11:09 am

    I don’t always set new goals for each year. This is about to change! You have truly inspired me! There are several goals that I would love to set, but I want them to be God-inspired. Heading to my prayer closet!!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:11 pm

      God puts those desires into your heart, SisterFriend. Don’t ignore them!

      Reply
  8. Challis says

    January 11, 2022 at 11:18 am

    Such wisdom I get from your podcast! Each one is filled with awesome nuggets! Thank you for pouring into us!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:13 pm

      Thank you, Challis! So glad it blessed you!

      Reply
  9. Kimere says

    January 11, 2022 at 3:33 pm

    Admittedly before attending our Goal-digging session within the Kingdom Influencer’s Inner Circle, goals not only fell flat, but they were pretty much non-existent. I realized goals in my head and heart were never stepped out into plans with strategy towards making them happen. However, that pattern has been interrupted and thanks to new found tools and strategies. I’m making more strides and prorgress than ever before. Proudly a goal-getter now.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:16 pm

      This makes my day! Thanks for sharing that, Kimerie!

      Reply
  10. Pamela Ogletree says

    January 11, 2022 at 3:48 pm

    So I my take away was the #2 and the importance of right support structures! I have focused more on being a structure for others than having my own…result depletion.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:17 pm

      Admitting it is half the battle, Pamela. Now that you know how important it is, it’s time to build your support structure!

      Reply
  11. Valerie says

    January 11, 2022 at 3:58 pm

    Thank you, this was reminder in setting SMART goals

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:17 pm

      My pleasure, Valerie.

      Reply
  12. Shanice Fuller says

    January 11, 2022 at 5:54 pm

    Episode 33 is full of gems! Not only does Angelica point out specific reasons why our goals fall flat, but she also provides a free guide book that helps you reflect on the previous year. I love how straightforward, yet gentle she is when communicating to her audience. My biggest take away is that I often start strong, but fail to evaluate my goals throughout the year. Listen to this episode and get the year in review book if you need to reflect and set realistic, attainable goals. You won’t regret it!!!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:18 pm

      I’m so glad the episode blessed you, Shanice! Remember, it’s a sprint, not a race.

      Reply
  13. LYNDA F says

    January 11, 2022 at 11:27 pm

    So much good stuff packed into a half hour! Thank you.
    I think Bridget Higgenbotham is my soul sister because I feel her comment so deeply in my soul too! I spin in circles, doing a lot, yet fizzle out and get bored. Lately I can’t seem to see the path ahead with any clarity so I’m excited to get working on the Year-In-Review workbook. Thank you Angelica!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:21 pm

      My pleasure, Lynda. And keep me posted on how things go for you this year!

      Reply
  14. LaQuida says

    January 12, 2022 at 12:18 pm

    Totally hits the mark for me regarding goals not achieved and I will definitely check out more of the podcast!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:27 pm

      I”m so glad to hear that, LaQuida!

      Reply
  15. Kristina says

    January 12, 2022 at 7:19 pm

    Awesome awesome awesome information about why our goals fall flat. I’m grateful for all that you do to build up women and the kingdom of God. This was a great episode (as all of them are). Angelica, you are truly gifted and blessed.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:40 pm

      Thank you, Kristina!

      Reply
  16. Valerie says

    January 12, 2022 at 8:44 pm

    Thank you for putting your time into seeking all these women out who need God and each other. I have enjoyed you for the last 3-4 yrs and have done many of your Bible studies.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:41 pm

      My pleasure, Valerie! I’m so glad you’re part of our community.

      Reply
  17. Denise Jones says

    January 12, 2022 at 9:55 pm

    Thank you for re-energizing me to go forward in fulfilling my destiny. Your words are so encouraging.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 13, 2022 at 12:42 pm

      My pleasure, Denise. 💕

      Reply
  18. Hyacinth Phillips says

    January 13, 2022 at 6:02 pm

    I am so excited for this retreat i am looking forward to learning goal setting and growing closer to God.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 16, 2022 at 1:59 pm

      I’m excited, too! It’s gonna be GOOD!

      Reply
  19. Shaunette says

    January 14, 2022 at 8:38 am

    Listen, I was only partially on track. This helped tremendously! It confirmed a few things that I was thinking as well as what I was missing. I’m more optimistic now than I was prior to listening to this segment. I am going to begin identifying my coach and fans. Thank you Angelica!!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 16, 2022 at 2:01 pm

      My pleasure, Shaunette! I can’t wait to hear where God takes you this year!

      Reply
  20. Telanna says

    January 14, 2022 at 10:40 am

    Thank you for sharing. “Isolation with goal setting is counterproductive,” this really resonated with me and had my name written all over it. The analogy you gave of individual athletes having a coach and fans helped me to see this from a different perspective. Having them and being open and willing to tap into them are two different stories. This is definitely something I will be more mindful of this year. Blessings.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 16, 2022 at 2:02 pm

      I’m so glad it blessed you, Telanna! You’re right, having them and being open and willing to tap into them ARE two different stories.

      Reply
  21. Patriena Walrond says

    January 14, 2022 at 11:24 am

    I have never set a yearly goal plan, I just start something
    and that I accomplish it which don’t always work. But
    thanks to you this is going to change for 2022.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 16, 2022 at 2:03 pm

      You can do this, Patriena! God is with you and cheering for you!

      Reply
  22. Marjorie says

    January 14, 2022 at 3:33 pm

    I appreciate your wisdom that is evident in what you are doing to empower women all over the globe.

    I am so excited to be a part of the Kingdom Woman Planning Retreat 2022.

    It’s transformation time for me.

    Thank you.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 16, 2022 at 2:06 pm

      We’re looking forward to seeing how God will grow you this year, Marjorie!

      Reply
  23. Jen says

    January 14, 2022 at 9:57 pm

    YES!! Set specific goals! Thanks for making the task of goals so clearly attainable!! Let’s do it!!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 16, 2022 at 2:07 pm

      Yes, let’s do it!!

      Reply
  24. Gail says

    January 15, 2022 at 12:25 am

    Thank you for giving me food to help me strategically move forward. I’m excited but will move with intention not like I have to finish it all today

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 16, 2022 at 2:12 pm

      My pleasure, Gail. And, that’s great insight: “not like I have to finish it all today.” I love that!

      Reply
  25. Latoye says

    January 15, 2022 at 8:24 pm

    Isolation with goal setting is counterproductive! That was for me….but isolation will no longer be a hindrance for me. Thank you for making this point.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 16, 2022 at 2:13 pm

      My pleasure, Latoye! I can’t wait to hear how God uses you this year!

      Reply
  26. Trena Melvin says

    January 16, 2022 at 3:13 pm

    Yes, this was me in 2021. I started sooooo many goals running off the adrenaline and didn’t pace myself. I call it Procrastination!! I didn’t have a structure in place which caused my dreams and goals to crumble and fall. NOT IN 2022!!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 27, 2022 at 2:01 pm

      NOT in 2022! Let’s link arms, SisterFriend!

      Reply
  27. Raynell Blackwell says

    January 18, 2022 at 9:49 pm

    Thank you so much for this eye opening episode! I am so ready for God to show out!!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 27, 2022 at 2:01 pm

      My pleasure, Raynell! 💕

      Reply
  28. Enola says

    January 19, 2022 at 1:17 am

    Much to think about. Grabbed the Guidebook. I’ve always been taught that having visions for a business weren’t trusting God. I was taught that women are to be cheerleaders and helpers, not need them. So much wrong teaching!! Results? I am utterly alone, floundering, confused. I am beyond overwhelmed, unsure as to what my goals actually are or even my place in the Kingdom. I have very little hope left, but there is some. So… I’m here and I’ll try my best to dance. Love you.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 27, 2022 at 2:02 pm

      We’re here, cheering you on, Enola. 💕

      Reply
  29. Anna Marie says

    January 20, 2022 at 1:14 am

    Very informative video. Cant wait to learn how to strategically set goals and review last year with the worksheets you provided. So easy to use . Cant wait for the war room experience. Thank you Angelica for setting up this wonderful retreat cant wait to start.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 27, 2022 at 2:03 pm

      Looking forward to seeing how God uses you in 2022, Anna Marie!

      Reply
  30. JESSIE SANON says

    January 20, 2022 at 4:34 pm

    Hello Angelica! This make total sense because sometimes we can bite off more than we can chew. It is important for me to set the specific goal and focus on executing it, This will help me to not get overwhelmed.

    Reply
    • Shuntella Carter says

      January 22, 2022 at 12:42 am

      I have been suffering with stucknesss for like ever and I’m ready to overcome and move forward. Thank you for this I will try to take everything and put it in place.

      Reply
      • Angelica says

        January 27, 2022 at 2:09 pm

        God has big plans for you, Shuntella! 💕

        Reply
  31. Hyacinth Phillips says

    January 21, 2022 at 3:51 pm

    I really feel stuck at setting goals. I have the same things on my vision board for two years so I am ready to make a change in my life. What i am hoping to get out of this retreat, is learning to set realistic goals.

    Reply
  32. Jada Dixon says

    January 21, 2022 at 7:57 pm

    The clarity you gave around setting proper goals…priceless. I feel like I made the goals without an end in sight.

    Also, I am guilty of trying to move in isolation. It has not been successful at all. 2022 is a new year and I am going to do better.

    I hope to make connections and gain knowledge so I may grow. Thank you for these pearls of wisdom!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 27, 2022 at 2:05 pm

      My pleasure, SisterFriend! 💕

      Reply
  33. Pat says

    January 21, 2022 at 9:26 pm

    Awesome!!! Set realistic goals

    Reply
  34. JD says

    January 21, 2022 at 11:02 pm

    You are so inspiring. I need support structure

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 27, 2022 at 2:06 pm

      💕 God has BIG plans for you this year, JD!

      Reply
  35. Raynell Blackwell says

    January 22, 2022 at 3:46 am

    I really enjoyed listening to this episode. I use to always hear people say that when you pray—be specific— but never really applied that same mindset to most of my goals. I am for sure a goal-setter—can’t live without doing so. This was refreshing for me— and I totally get why being clear and specific with setting goals is so important. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom!

    Reply
  36. Joy L McClain says

    January 22, 2022 at 10:13 am

    I’m the big picture and deep dive person. Others see that in me. The isolation of 2020 has layered a stuck that I haven’t experienced Personally. So that isolation with goal setting is counter productive hit me quick. My biggest take away is that I often start strong, but lose enthusiasm and fail to evaluate my goals throughout the year.

    Reply
  37. Ruth Martin says

    January 22, 2022 at 12:27 pm

    I’m ready to step into my Breakthrough in 2022!!

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 27, 2022 at 2:10 pm

      🙌🏾 💕

      Reply
  38. KAREN S. BROWN says

    January 22, 2022 at 2:34 pm

    I so love that listening to this podcast gave me the opportunity to think about last year and simply PUT IT TO BED. I am learning to be more understanding and gentle with myself and give myself the same GRACE I would give others. Last year is Last Year! I learned from it and made it to this New Year. Last year my word was THROUGH and in 2022 it’s PUSH! PUSH forward, PUSH for more understanding, PUSH for the greatness in me, and PUSH for GOD.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 27, 2022 at 2:11 pm

      This is great, Karen! Looking forward to what God has in store for you this year. Push through, SisterFriend! 💕

      Reply
  39. Julie Brindamour says

    January 22, 2022 at 6:46 pm

    Just another gift from you! I have enjoyed all of the great wisdom like, goal diggers, P31, and The inner circle. You have a gift to lift and every time I need a lift I always look to your programs/podcast/email/facebook to find the one that I need to hear. God bless you for having the words to guide me.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 27, 2022 at 2:12 pm

      Thank you, Julie! 💕

      Reply
  40. Elva West says

    January 24, 2022 at 1:30 am

    Angelica I ran across one of your FACEBOOK lives talking about joining you in your Annual Planning Retreat. Setting goals have always been a challenge for me and I didn’t really know what it was all about but I felt my spirit tugging at me to sign up.I have procrastinated for years on accomplishing goals or getting overwhelmed with how to start what I feel the Lord has called me to do. But after signing up for the Retreat and war room because I knew I was not going to be available for all of Saturdays sessions but after attending all of Sundays sessions I am soo excited for really feeling like I will get started in truly getting more clarity and walking in my purpose and building an online community of sisters. I thank God for allowing me to find your live and get that fresh wind that I needed.

    Reply
    • Angelica says

      January 27, 2022 at 2:13 pm

      🙌🏾 💕

      Reply
  41. Yolanda V Lee-George says

    January 25, 2022 at 12:23 pm

    I’m working on not be a procrastinator, even now, I’ve not been able to log on to listen in the conference, but reading all the comments from these awesome ladies has given me a push. I need to learn how to self care more and prioritize MYSELF! You all are amazing.

    Reply
  42. Ashley Hernandez says

    January 25, 2022 at 6:55 pm

    “Did you start off the year like American Pharoh in the Kentucky Derby only to fizzle out long before you reached the finish line?”

    Story of my life Angelica!!!!

    Thank you soooooo much for your heart to serve us!

    I got the guide book and started it. It’s making me think HARD and dig DEEP, so I haven’t finished yet.

    Reply

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